1. Confidence
自信
Confidence is the one thing women consistently say they want in a man. Confidence is king. That means as long as you feel good about what you have to offer, and as long as you’re comfortable with yourself, you have a shot.
女性一直说男性的自信是她们所喜欢的。自信就是王道，这意味着只须你对我们的付出感觉好，只须你对自己认可，你就有机会。
2. Ambition
野心
Men too often think that all women care about is money, but that’s nonsense. The reason women gravitate toward men with successful careers is because their success at work is indicative of certain attractive personality traits: commitment, discipline, strong work ethic.
男性一直以为女性只在乎钱，真的是胡说八道。女性被事业有成的男性吸引是什么原因他们事业上的成功代表了他们会有一些迷人的品格：有担当、自律、好的职业道德。
3. Sense of humor
幽默感
A good sense of humor is one of the qualities women almost always mention when listing off the things they look for in a man. A good sense of humor just means you know how to tell and take a joke.
女性在列举喜欢的男性的品格时总会提到幽默感，好的幽默感就意味着你了解如何开玩笑，也开得起玩笑。
4. Passion
热情
Women love to see that you’re passionate, because in their minds passion in one sphere of life that can be transferred into another sphere of life.
女性喜欢看到你充满热情，由于在她们看来，对日常一个方面的热情可以转移到其他方面。
5. Intelligence
智慧
Many women find smarts as sexy as physical appearance. Avoid running your mouth on subjects you know nothing about. Better to be suspected a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.
不少女性觉得头脑和外表一样性感。对你一无所知的事情不要满嘴跑火车，让人怀疑你非常笨要比一张嘴说话就叫人们消除这种疑虑好得多。
6. Sociability
擅长交际
Women want a guy with a high social IQ. They just want to know you won’t go catatonic when faced with a group of people you don’t know.
女性喜欢社交IQ高的男性，她们只不过想了解你不会在面对一群陌生人时精神紧张。
7. Communication skills
交流方法
Sometimes, all a woman needs you to do is listen. This is hard for us guys, because we’re very “action|oriented.” If you can show a woman you have the capacity to pay attention to her, it will radically improve your chances.
有时女性只不过需要你倾听，这对大家男性来讲非常难，由于大家一直以行动为主导。假如你能在女性面前表现出你能注意倾听，绝对能提升你成功的概率。
8. Positivity
积极
An optimistic person makes others feel good; his optimism can be contagious, even inspiring.
乐观的人会使其他人感觉好，乐观有感染力，甚至还能给人鼓励。
9. Looks
外表
Women are much, much better looking than we are. They care about looks too. Try to keep yourself well|groomed. Wear clothes that fit, and at least make an effort to keep yourself in shape.
女性比大家男性漂亮得多，她们也在乎其他人的长相。你要尽可能穿着讲究一点，穿适合的衣服，至少要努力维持好身材。
10. Independence
独立
They want a guy who is capable and independent, able to make his own decisions, and cook dinner for himself. Despite what you might think, no woman wants to be your mother.
她们喜欢的男性要有能力、独立、有主见，还要能自己做饭。不管你如何想，但没女性想给你当妈。
